I have an idea Kara as I was there for the birth of my son, what an ordeal, I would have died! we men do have no idea...

Sorry Patrick, I shouldn't label all men as not understanding. There are some though... My husband will joke around about it, but when it comes down to it, he is very understanding and good about it.

SHUT UP and pass me the chocolate

Thank you, Kara, for your understanding that the spectrum of behaviour covers both genders

Yes, note I said somemen. There are some really jerk guys that just don't get it. Oh, but I am sure that you do, being as setimental as you are.

If it has any effect on me it is that I am harder on myself if I make a mistake than I would normally be. Example: Oh crap I need to circle that and fix it turns in to...

PIECE OF CRAP (*&^*&^(%&^%&(% (Censored). My dad actually asked me once if the piece I was playing had grrrrrrrrr and damn it written in to it... XD