I need help...Anyone willing to give it to me?LoL
17:21 on Monday, May 21, 2007
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flutes-4ever (183 points)
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Heres the story...
I have about 7 years of flute under my belt and then when I went into marching band,I went with percusiion,still doing the flute.I ma now in Intermediate band..I am first chair/section leader)(grrrr >=V)(going to be in advanced band next year!!yay LoL)And then my band teacher(who is leaving )said,"If you want top be section leader next year for marching band,come get your applications."So I got one and did it for flute...I am pretty sure I am the only one who turned one in cause all the people in advanced band are senioras and are obviously leaving.If I do get the job,Im afraid that no one in my section is going to listen and what not.I have very little patience and I just dont want to be known as the horrible sectiona leader..I want to be the cool one but with a good section.
But what the hell should I do?!I am so not prepared for that sorta...I am onkly going to be a sophomore next year :P
And even now as me being section leader for flute in Int. band only one person listens to me and that is my friend Carmen.If I try to tell the other girls(and boy)what to do I get mny head bitten off then they play it wrong and Im the ont whop endas up getting in trouble.Then when They finally do listen thy are like why didnt you tell me before?Im like I DID!!You just refused to listen to me!
so...what should I do to try and become a better leader?
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Re: I need help...Anyone willing to give it to me?LoL
18:48 on Monday, May 21, 2007
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Re: I need help...Anyone willing to give it to me?LoL
19:44 on Monday, May 21, 2007
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Re: I need help...Anyone willing to give it to me?LoL
20:11 on Monday, May 21, 2007
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Re: I need help...Anyone willing to give it to me?LoL
20:16 on Monday, May 21, 2007
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Re: I need help...Anyone willing to give it to me?LoL
00:06 on Tuesday, May 22, 2007
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Re: I need help...Anyone willing to give it to me?LoL
09:12 on Tuesday, May 22, 2007
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akniering (15 points)
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I agree with previous posters...Having been a marching band section leader myself(many years ago...), the first thing that I would do is not to worry about being the "cool section leader". I realize that being cool seems important in high school, but as a leader, that is not your job. If you become a good leader, "being a cool section leader" will naturally follow. I would second the suggestion of talking with this year's section leader, as well as your current band director. Explain your fears, and ask for suggestions about developing your leadership skills. And as Kara mentioned, if this is too stressful for you this year, than consider withdrawing your application and enjoy your junior year as a good flute player. You can always apply for your senior year! Being a section leader can be a wonderful experience, and you will learn some valuable skills that will take you through life. However, it's also a big responsibility and one that you probably shouldn't take on until you feel comfortable with it.
Good Luck!
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Re: I need help...Anyone willing to give it to me?LoL
16:50 on Tuesday, May 22, 2007
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Re: I need help...Anyone willing to give it to me?LoL
20:23 on Tuesday, May 22, 2007
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Re: I need help...Anyone willing to give it to me?LoL
20:47 on Wednesday, May 23, 2007
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flutes-4ever (183 points)
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I want to start off by saying...THANK YOU ALL!!!!!!!
I did talk to the current section leader(Lola)and shes like,"AHHHHHHHHH!!!!Cheyenne!!!Thats so cute!!!" Lol
To correct the mistake of me being a junoir,Im a froshy going to be a sophomore next year...I hate yelling so i really dont want to,but I kinda have to give them the point of view that if they dont do what needs to be done,disciplinary actions will be taken...But most of the other girls from last year hardly showed up for sectionals...Idk...Ill make sectionals fun and exciting...bring candy or a treat of some sort....
Its a flute tradition at our school to have a flute sleepover and I guess like if they dont do anything they cant go(?) I dont how good of an idea that is..but hey...its worth a shot... But Im going to be going to a leadership workshop in June so hopefully that will help me a lot.
I know I can act like I know everything sometimes(and Im working on that!!!)
But Im am working on everything I can...and it seems to be helping...But Im also going to ask Lola for a bit more tips.
And she did suggest making things fun and making them funny
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Re: I need help...Anyone willing to give it to me?LoL
21:22 on Wednesday, May 23, 2007
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Flutist06 (1545 points)
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.I hate yelling so i really dont want to,but I kinda have to give them the point of view that if they dont do what needs to be done,disciplinary actions will be taken... |
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Every band is run differently, but they'll get the idea when you start handing out laps/pushups/talks/whatever is appropriate. Don't be afraid to rely on the rest of the leadership, right on up to the band director to be sure what needs to happen gets done.
But most of the other girls from last year hardly showed up for sectionals...Idk...Ill make sectionals fun and exciting...bring candy or a treat of some sort.... |
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It sounds like you need to get them to take band more seriously if they didn't even show up for sectionals, and giving them treats isn't the way to do that (though it is a good idea every once in a while to reinforce good behavior). They need to start taking responsibility and showing up where they're expected, and not just because they'll get a cupcake if they do.
Its a flute tradition at our school to have a flute sleepover and I guess like if they dont do anything they cant go(?) I dont how good of an idea that is..but hey...its worth a shot... But Im going to be going to a leadership workshop in June so hopefully that will help me a lot. |
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Generally positive reinforcement for the good things is more effective than negative reinforcement for the bad....Taking away sleepover privileges might get them to do what you want, but for the wrong reasons. If you catch them doing something good, give them public praise. If they are misbehaving, private talks may be appropriate. My old high school used to do a flute sleepover as well, and it's an excellent bonding experience, so you should be trying to make sure EVERYONE shows up, rather than taking away the right to be there. A section that likes everyone (or at least can coexist peacefully) is going to be more productive. Try to get them all to participate in bonding exercises early (as early as the beginning of the summer) and often.
And she did suggest making things fun and making them funny |
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It's a good idea to try to keep things light (as appropriate), but don't try to turn everything into a joke. On another note, treat all your section members with the respect you'd like them to return. When they do something you don't like, deal with it maturely (and privately if possible). If you have any questions regarding leadership, there's a FANTASTIC internet resource in Dave Kuhns. He travels the country teaching leadership seminars, and can be found on the World of Pageantry forums (worldofpageantry.com) under the username "nopsbs." I've worked with him several times before, and he has some great ideas.
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Re: I need help...Anyone willing to give it to me?LoL
16:40 on Saturday, July 21, 2007
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Re: I need help...Anyone willing to give it to me?LoL
17:47 on Saturday, July 21, 2007
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Re: I need help...Anyone willing to give it to me?LoL
20:50 on Saturday, July 21, 2007
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Re: I need help...Anyone willing to give it to me?LoL
21:39 on Saturday, July 21, 2007
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