I DONT want to sound rude or conceded but..........
17:05 on Friday, October 19, 2007
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_TonyT-PiccoloBO Y_
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Posted by _TonyT-PiccoloBOY_
In my band class a girl that was in the top band last year quit but recently came back. When we got our parts she was ahead of me WHICH ISNT THE BIG DEAL (trying not to make it sound as if im conceded about myself) I have been playing a couple of years and skiped 3 band levels in one year. But when I asked our director why I did not get 1st (im right next to her) he said, "Because you are in a lower grade." does that make sence to you? still not trying to sound rude but I AM WAY BETTER THAN HER!!! what should I do, deal with it? or what?
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By the way im only in 7th, she is in 9th
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Re: I DONT want to sound rude or conceded but..........
17:26 on Friday, October 19, 2007
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17:58 on Friday, October 19, 2007
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18:15 on Friday, October 19, 2007
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18:42 on Friday, October 19, 2007
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_TonyT-PiccoloBO Y_
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Posted by _TonyT-PiccoloBOY_
Flutist06 you hit what I was asking for right on the nail!
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Re: I DONT want to sound rude or conceded but..........
20:26 on Friday, October 19, 2007
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08:19 on Saturday, October 20, 2007
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12:24 on Saturday, October 20, 2007
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13:50 on Saturday, October 20, 2007
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17:56 on Saturday, October 20, 2007
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02:32 on Sunday, October 21, 2007
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18:27 on Monday, October 22, 2007
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Account Closed (324 points)
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Dear Leigh:
This might be redundant, since I think I posted a response, earlier, but:
I recall, in my high-school year(s), that I was not chosen for 1st chair position, due to "politics".
What I mean to say, is that the flutists (in band and orchestra) who were chosen above me, happened to be studying (private lessions) with the band instructor.
I wasn't --- so (he) chose two other flutists ahead of me.
Again, politics, at its worst. And yes, it happens in high school.
I was relegatd to "third" flutist --- and assigned to play the Piccolo(gasp!).
I felt that I was more accomplished than the two flutists who were placed above me (principal and assistant principal), but, that was MY opinion.
I think Kara said it best: there should be the right to "challenge" --- or audition for "principal" flute, when you feel that you are being overlooked, politics aside.
The major symphonies now recognize this --- so why shouldn't high school students be allowed the same? The operative word is, after all, TALENT.
IF you think you're better --- then "challenge" them!
But, I feel, just "roll with the punches" --- and be the best you can be. And who cares, in high school what "chair" you have to accept? Just recognize it as "politics" at work, and it has NO reflection upon YOUR abilities or future endeavors.
Hope this help, from someone who's been there.
Regards, Jim Millen
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Re: I DONT want to sound rude or conceded but..........
18:16 on Thursday, December 6, 2007
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Re: I DONT want to sound rude or conceded but..........
06:16 on Friday, December 7, 2007
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kozafluitmusique (115 points)
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Posted by kozafluitmusique
A freshman was chosen this year to be first chair instead of one of my friends at my old school.
My friend is a senior and way better so I've heard. It's so weird, though...but I dont know. That's so weird! I think chairs should be based on talent ... not seniority.
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Re: I DONT want to sound rude or conceded but..........
10:51 on Sunday, December 16, 2007
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