You should try a community band when you feel up to it. They aren't all good, but they do definitely supplement your private playing.
Sometimes the music is better than the people, sometimes the people are better than the music.
You'll find a good list of community bands here:
http://boerger.org/c-m/commUSA.html
Find a band or two close to you and jot them down, then click the link at the top and find them in the full contacts section.
New people showing up for a few rehearsals and not coming back isn't unusual, so don't be afraid to sample them for a short test run and give yourself plenty of time. Community bands can be a lifetime thing