does anyone know where i could find that staff thingy that connects to your oboe's thumb rest.. i dont remember what it's called, but my oboe teacher told me and now i dont remember. can anyone help me? thanks

What is its purpose?

Do you mean a lyre to hold music while marching, or a support such as a thumb rest or neck strap?

the thing that supports ur oboe while playing.

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but its not a thumb rest, it connects to the thumb rest

Look at the following web page and see if it's there.

http://www.forrestsmusic.com/oboe_straps

no thats not it... its like this adjustable staff and at the top is a loop of thin metal that hooks on to the thumb rest.. it doesn't connect but it hooks on and off... idk. maybe i'll just ask my oboe teacher where i can get one.

It's called a FHRED. Check various oboe shops for the best pricing.

The maker:
http://quodlibet.com/FhredGen.htm

Some stores that carry it:
http://www.charlesmusic.com/
http://www.annhodge.com/store/
http://www.nielsen-woodwinds.com/

yeahh! thats it. well im still gonna ask her where i can find one

You can order it from Forrests Music. Scroll down the following web page.

http://www.forrestsmusic.com/oboe_straps

yeah i know but i have lessons tomorrow and im still gonna ask where i can find one