1) there are about 4 notes in almost any jazz piece that keep repeating, these would be the main notes that you can play around with and it still sound good.
2) just play around on your own (dedicated) time
-play any note that YOU are comforitable with and sustain it, pulling your mouthpiece away from your mouth (not all the way) and perfect your entonation and pitch.
-get some trumpet solos from this website (or somewhere else) that push you to your limits,and get better at them, then get some more and just keep perfecting and pushing your self (make sure that your mouthpiece fits you)
3) it takes different actions to get different reactions, it will take a while to get use to it.
Hope this helps