its so stulike my drummer got all !***!ed at me when he found out i had 2 bands...who agrees???

It's really simple...
Play as much as possible, play with as many cats as possible, and make as much money at it as possible.
A competent bass player who plays his or her cards right can get a decent amount of freelance work. Why put all your eggs in one basket? Bass players are so often treated like expendable hired guns anyway.

as much as i didn't under stand that...thatss cool