hi i have kind of small fingers but i really want to play guitar any advice is appriciated from exprience or just an idea that may help please and thank you

Can`t believe nobody answered you. Buy a smaller guitar, or a guitar with a thinner neck. I could suggest a few, but better if you go and try several till you`re satisfied. You will be able to pick up most of what the guitar is all about, certainly well beyond the basics. Lessons can begin as early as age 8, but I sort of expect my 6 - 7 year old to start. Strat Man Dwight